stashed away post -fwb

i stumbled upon this topic.
friends with benefits.
how it works is that theres only physically attachment involved.
very little or no emotional attachment whatsoever.

the problem with this kind of social deal is the pressure.
the pressure to stop ur feelings from developing further from just being "friends"
or the competition to see who is the first one to give in emotionally.

and then theres the guilty conscience that hits u after.
the self integrity and respect u once had is possibly smashed into smithereens.

but then,
on top of all that.
theres is the satisfaction of physical urges.
and the thrill of sexual tension in public settings.

the evaluation?
depends on individual levels of horniness and self-respect.
if carefully deliberated,
a good deal can possibly be made.

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